Our faithful friend, M has been keeping in touch when we were back in Singapore. He came to the airport yesterday to welcome us & invited us to celebrate his niece’s birthday today. It was a simple celebration at home with his family over a delicious lunch. Even though we did not understand each other in words, his family’s hospitality was warmly felt the moment we stepped into the home.
We were served cans of Coke & Tiger beer, reserved only for honored guests. His brother fussed over the computer so it could play music. His sister then made every possible effort to play the “right” songs so we would be properly entertained. His mother kept bringing plates of food to us to eat more.
There was no fancy icing on the cake. Nor was there any candle. Just birthday songs in Tetum then in Portuguese for the occasion but the little girl, Babra was ecstatic with so many people especially foreigners celebrating her birthday!
When it’s photo time, M’s parent went to change into formal clothes before taking the family photo together with us. That’s how important they view us as their guests & I am truly honored to be part of the occasion!
With love from Timor,
Lydia
6.6.2010













